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Tuesday, July 8, 2008
I hate public speaking K28
29 comments:
Anonymous
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walawehhhh.... it's not tat we hate public speakin...jus tat LANGUAGE PROB is every where.... we cudnt tink of suitable words to ensure da sentences look great... then...how can we tink up simple sentences in jus few seconds wen our minds are actually burden wit ol kinds of feelins... nervous....scared of wat pple wil tink of us...OMG.... wel.... WE NED 2 B REALLY CONFIDENT i gues...tho words wud b ol jumbled up n down..wakakaka...
I don't hate public speaking but 2 say that i like it is an understatement..Teacher i'm sorry 4using short form but i'm really more comfortable n can blog faster this way..but i'll try 2 use just the simple n understandable by all's short forms.. Actually 2day i already can sense that i'm going 2 b the 1st speaker in front since the teacher kept glancing n calling me n i was sitting closest 2 her.. My heart was beating so fast n my blood's draining from my face.. but u know what they said a presenter was usually a lier so i came out in front put a brave face n start talking.. i was disappointed with my performance actually.. i wish i had more time 2 prepared.. my point was very disorganized n i just said things that came across my mind.. i could have done better but what had done is done.. no used 2 cry over a spilt milk.. The funny thing is the whole time i was speaking the creepy song of i hate public speaking kept playing in my mind..gosh i really hate that song.. the song taunted n annoyed me like hell.. i don't hate public speaking but i definately hate the i hate public speaking song.. ps:teacher since my intention on posting only 10 post was caught by you i'll do my best 2 post more.. anything 4 my xtra marks..hehe..
waaaa.... i'm very worry about it.my hands getting sweat..my whole body become cold eventhough the sun is on my head..my legs shaking..my concerntration???i don't know where...
but i need support and i find more practices and more knowledge will help me..i have nice experience as debater...really cool when we talk in front others...most of my freinds have told me that i'm a weird person..hah...why like that..??
it is because my confidence will come in front of audience that i don't know about them but not in front of my friends parents and also people who know me..
i relly hope that i will face a challenge to talk in front of crowd of person...i also want myself to be brave person as long as i live in this challenging life..
'i hAte pUblic spEakiNg... sUddenly i'm sOmeone i dOn't knOw...'
are u rEmembEr this lYrics??? of cOurse yes...it wiLl be my fAvOurAte sOng...huhu...
acTuaLly,,i dOn't hAte pUblic sPeaking...i jUst dOn't hAve hIgh cOnfidEnt to tAlk in fRont of thE crOwd...thAt's wHy i'll be afRaid to do pUblic spEaking...
i wiLl leArn hArd abOut hOw to be a gOod preSenTer,tAke pArt with aLl actiVity in cLass,,aNd nO wOndEr i will be a gOod preSenter oNe dAy...mAy Allah blEss me...
huhuhuhu,, Public speking??? Before this i really hate to give a speech..
i am so scare to stand in front of people even in my class when i am at secondary school.. my hand and leg was shaking.. sometime i could not speak very well coz too nervous.. i am do not have a confident to give a speech..huhuhu..
but, right now i must throw away all my weakness to become a excellent presenter..
i hope all my lovely friend give a support to me.. teacher, please help me.. u just open my eyes that how to become a confident presenter at stage..
what is public speaking? before you become a good public speaker you must know the definition of public speaking and what approch that you will take to get the audience attention.
Hype.. Salam... good evening... Public speaking???hmm,pblic speakg is give a speech in front of people...without preparation..do you like pblc speakg?hehe...actually like public speakg...i don't hate public speakg..b'coz it can give more brave in ourselves...but,i don't have high cnfident to give an interesting speech...huhu...I’m not confident to speak well in English...huhu..but, today i have learn more about to attract the audiences.. What we have to do when the audience feel sleepy and many more..hehe..so,i will try my best to give an excellent public speakg...hope all of us can do the best..Thank you...love u all and also madam jumani..
salam... syaz here... public speaking??? honestly...i hate public speaking...i don't know why... maybe because i cant speak in english very well... i'm one of the debater in my school...but, in malay...hehehe... now, i 'am trying to build some confident in myself so i'm going to be a better syaz then syaz now...hehehe... my best friend give me some tips to improve my english...she said by reading a dictionary...i hv try it before this just 2 pages...but....very bored...=( that all for today... i'm taking a nap now... daaaa......
hello! winnie here~ about public speaking, ermm... actually i like to talk, but not on the stage..
It is because i will shiver when i talk.. and i will keep on sweating~ that is horrible!
However, i need to see who are the audiences.. i dont scared to talk in front of the people who are younger than me.. may be it is because the people elder is more knowledgeable! and i afraid of doing mistake!
Frankly,i am exposed to public speaking quite late.it was during my form 6.i could still remember vividly,everyone of us in class would always pray for the adsent of the MUET teacher.Fear would fill up our mind whenever teacher step into our class!!!You can imagine how much of our hatred toward public speaking...
Somehow,i really admire to those excellent public speaker.I will respect them very(xinfinity) much.
In fact,i wish myself can conquer this challenge and to be my own admirer...i think it's a must to excel it in order to increase our competency in future.
I know it's not easy to achieve that but i will do my best to attain it.
By the way,I really agree with mashi,it's no use to cry over spilt milk cause it would only make yourself hate public speaking more and more.
On the other way round,the first thing i think we should learn is love public speaking more and more....
Personally,I do not hate public speaking,but,I'm still in the process of building my self-confidence in this area.
Like Winnie said,it all depends on who ur audience r.Age does matter.To me,seriously.When u noe that u target audience r younger than u,and ur main aim is to pass info that u have it long in ur fingertips,it's just so E-A-S-Y.
However,if the audiences r ur peers or someone older than u,ah,now,u'll feel the pressure coming in.Making u harder to speak out.
But I strongly believe that PRACTISE MAKES PERFECT.If we practise more in front of the people that we tend to b nervous at,in due time,we'll be used to it.
One way to overcome fear of public speaking is to be afraid and speak anyway. As stupid as this seems, it’s possibly the most reliable way to gain confidence in speaking. Be afraid, be nervous, be hesitant, but do it anyway.
You won’t be very good at it the first few times, but don’t expect to be. Simply make it a goal to do it and finish. Once you’ve done it a few times, and you realize it hasn’t killed you, you’ll be less afraid to do it the next time. And if you keep doing it, eventually you’ll start to get good at it and may even learn to enjoy it.
I think one of the reasons people fear public speaking is that they expect too much of themselves. It’s like being afraid of flying a plane when you’ve had no instruction. Of course you’re going to fail. If the pilot calls you up to the cockpit and says “land this plane,” it’s a safe bet you’ll crash if you try it.
But at least when you fail at public speaking, it isn’t normally fatal. Failure is actually one of the best ways to learn it. It’s the same way we learn to walk and talk when we’re toddlers. We stumble and stutter until we get it right. Just as you wouldn’t expect a white belt in Karate to be able to break a brick, you also wouldn’t expect a first-time public speaker to be as polished as a pro. But sadly, people demand such a level of performance of themselves, expecting that if they’re going to speak publicly, they’d better be outstanding. And since this isn’t going to happen, it generates fear. But the fear largely goes away if you set realistic expectations and head up to the lectern expecting to stink your first few times.
At the very least, Toastmasters is a great way to get out and do something social, make new local friends (which is especially nice to counterbalance an overabundance of online friends), have some laughs, and get the heck away from the computer for a while. In fact, I have a meeting to go to right now….
From my opinion,every student should lisen "i had public speaking" song because,from that we can realized our self and will get to know about our stages. Student should improve their skills in order to present a quality presentation. Firstly,i just laugh with my friends when i view the song. Then i bring up some question,"Why we all hate the public speaking?".After that,i got some message from the song that tell us always should aleart to improve our skills. Forexample communication skills,leadership skiils and speaking skills,because this is a skills will always help us to bring out or create our good images
Salam.I just want to add some fact on how to be a good public speakers.The most commom fear among public speakers is stages fright.Occourding to oxford dictionary stages fright is the feeling occour when performing on stages and will have efffect on our behavior for example nervous.The first thing to do for overcoming stages fright is to control your feeling and behave normaly on stages.By doing this you will fell more relax and calm so that the projection of idea wiil not be interrupted.There was a study about nervous in the west that shows people that fell nervous wiil have problem on projection of idea.The second step on how to overcome stages fright is to changes the mind set among the public speaking.Most of us will set on our mind public speaking suck because we did not enjoy doing public speaking and we always put in mind that public speaking is something that bourden.
fazdrul kc08036 public speaking? i'm very scared when listen this word.. i feel want to kill the person that talk about this word.. but i like the song i hate public speaking.... this song very suitable for me to show that i hate public speaking so much... when, the teachers said that every person must talk at the stage, i feel nervous, and want run away from her class.... as a conclusion, i ate public speaking so much....
Public speaking???? actualy, hornestly i didnt like public speaking before i enter UMP..
If i hear a public speaking, my heart bit like to out, my hand is cold and my kneel was shaking..that is because i didnt have confident to speak in the public..after learn how to control our when face to face with a public with my teaher madam jumani... Now,when I want to present something, my confident level is improve even not to much..hehehe
Assalamualaikum... Actually public speaking can give advantage to me but I don't have skill about public speaking.so sometime i like and sometime i don't like it.After i hear song 'i hate public speaking'it is same to me.hahaha I hope one day I can give public spaeking.Thank you for Pn Jumani because give me some tips how to be a good presenteror to give a speech.that all...
salam... first when i heard about public speaking...i thouggt it was easy...just like we talk to our frenz...
the true is public spaeking is not easy as u think...so nervous...all the things that i plan to talk gone...fly without wings...
i feel like an abnormal person...my hands was shaking...like having parkinson deasase...sometimes i will go to the left or right to overcome my nervous...looks like wanna dance...hehe..
but for me to overcome the nervouse..we have to practice more...even a pro public speaker have their nervous...
the different is they didn't show their nervous..like teacher said they lied to the audience.. that's all for me...
i late again....... PUBLIC SPEAKING... Oh my god..... 100% i hate public speaking....yeah I really hate public speaking while i was born. I feel nervous everytime I have to give the speech although I have practice it many times. I also lack of confident and I will forgot everything I have remember and read when I saw the audience. My hand will shaking. But I will try to improve myself and I hope I will become one of the best presenter one day.
what can I described about it? -nervous -shy -shaking -and so on ....
but sometimes I enjoy about it IF another person go at front and present their project @ related.
but what I'm hate about public speaking is myself that speechless.. other conditions it OK on ME. confident style, and other EXCLUDE related at speech I can control it!
that the weakness that I want improved after this! so, PLEASE HELP ME OUT ON THAT!!!
Oh my god,why im so late sent comment...today only i realise that i not yet complete my comment,,, Its okie,i do it ready... I am not hate public speaking but i have less confident to talk in public... Other than that,i feel nervous because i dont have confident to talk in front of public.. I hope that,technical english will make me more confident.
For me, the public speaking is one way to improve our skill in speaking in English language but i hate it because when i'm started to stand in front of a lot of people, my mind become blank and so nervous like a butterfly in my stomach. anyway i'm try my best to improve it.
heloo.. actually i like public speaking a lot..but when it comes to facing the audiences i would be shaking and my mind is blank..i still cannot overcome my stagefright fully....i think ,to overcome this problem, i should put an emphasis on my vocabulary and speech techniques...
hopefully,at the end of this course,i would be a better public speaker...
29 comments:
walawehhhh....
it's not tat we hate public speakin...jus tat LANGUAGE PROB is every where....
we cudnt tink of suitable words to ensure da sentences look great...
then...how can we tink up simple sentences in jus few seconds wen our minds are actually burden wit ol kinds of feelins...
nervous....scared of wat pple wil tink of us...OMG....
wel....
WE NED 2 B REALLY CONFIDENT i gues...tho words wud b ol jumbled up n down..wakakaka...
I dun hate Public Speaking~
I just scared of it!! ^_^//
Coz i hav 2 stand in front of
public~
n everybody stared at me!
i scared that am i speak wrongly~~
or i dressed up wrongly~~
Haiz~~
However, i know i need 2 overcome my fear~ n like teacher said, hide my nervous!
so~ just try lar~~ ^_^
Try 2 speak in front of d public!
I don't hate public speaking but 2 say that i like it is an understatement..Teacher i'm sorry 4using short form but i'm really more comfortable n can blog faster this way..but i'll try 2 use just the simple n understandable by all's short forms..
Actually 2day i already can sense that i'm going 2 b the 1st speaker in front since the teacher kept glancing n calling me n i was sitting closest 2 her..
My heart was beating so fast n my blood's draining from my face..
but u know what they said a presenter was usually a lier so i came out in front put a brave face n start talking..
i was disappointed with my performance actually..
i wish i had more time 2 prepared..
my point was very disorganized n i just said things that came across my mind..
i could have done better but what had done is done..
no used 2 cry over a spilt milk..
The funny thing is the whole time i was speaking the creepy song of i hate public speaking kept playing in my mind..gosh i really hate that song..
the song taunted n annoyed me like hell..
i don't hate public speaking but i definately hate the i hate public speaking song..
ps:teacher since my intention on posting only 10 post was caught by you i'll do my best 2 post more..
anything 4 my xtra marks..hehe..
salam...
actually,i dont hate public speaking but im just nervous to talk in front of many people..
i think many peolpe dont have their confident to talk in front..
me too..
but,i must try to throw out my nervous feeling so that i can be a good presenter..
thanks for being a good lecturer for us...
-liyana-
assalamualikum....
public speaking?!/??!
waaaa....
i'm very worry about it.my hands getting sweat..my whole body become cold eventhough the sun is on my head..my legs shaking..my concerntration???i don't know where...
but i need support and i find more practices and more knowledge will help me..i have nice experience as debater...really cool when we talk in front others...most of my freinds have told me that i'm a weird person..hah...why like that..??
it is because my confidence will come in front of audience that i don't know about them but not in front of my friends parents and also people who know me..
i relly hope that i will face a challenge to talk in front of crowd of person...i also want myself to be brave person as long as i live in this challenging life..
-shikin-
'i hAte pUblic spEakiNg... sUddenly i'm sOmeone i dOn't knOw...'
are u rEmembEr this lYrics???
of cOurse yes...it wiLl be my fAvOurAte sOng...huhu...
acTuaLly,,i dOn't hAte pUblic sPeaking...i jUst dOn't hAve hIgh cOnfidEnt to tAlk in fRont of thE crOwd...thAt's wHy i'll be afRaid to do pUblic spEaking...
i wiLl leArn hArd abOut hOw to be a gOod preSenTer,tAke pArt with aLl actiVity in cLass,,aNd nO wOndEr i will be a gOod preSenter oNe dAy...mAy Allah blEss me...
assalamualaikum...
huhuhuhu,,
Public speking???
Before this i really hate to give a speech..
i am so scare to stand in front of people even in my class when i am at secondary school..
my hand and leg was shaking..
sometime i could not speak very well coz too nervous..
i am do not have a confident to give a speech..huhuhu..
but, right now i must throw away all my weakness to become a excellent presenter..
i hope all my lovely friend give a support to me..
teacher, please help me..
u just open my eyes that how to become a confident presenter at stage..
(love u all)
stages fright.......
what is public speaking? before you become a good public speaker you must know the definition of public speaking and what approch that you will take to get the audience attention.
Hype..
Salam...
good evening...
Public speaking???hmm,pblic speakg is give a speech in front of people...without preparation..do you like pblc speakg?hehe...actually like public speakg...i don't hate public speakg..b'coz it can give more brave in ourselves...but,i don't have high cnfident to give an interesting speech...huhu...I’m not confident to speak well in English...huhu..but, today i have learn more about to attract the audiences.. What we have to do when the audience feel sleepy and many more..hehe..so,i will try my best to give an excellent public speakg...hope all of us can do the best..Thank you...love u all and also madam jumani..
from...shafiza...(^,*)
salam...
syaz here...
public speaking???
honestly...i hate public speaking...i don't know why...
maybe because i cant speak in english very well...
i'm one of the debater in my school...but,
in malay...hehehe...
now, i 'am trying to build some confident in myself so i'm going to be a better syaz then syaz now...hehehe...
my best friend give me some tips to improve my english...she said by reading a dictionary...i hv try it before this just 2 pages...but....very bored...=(
that all for today...
i'm taking a nap now...
daaaa......
hello!
winnie here~
about public speaking,
ermm...
actually i like to talk,
but not on the stage..
It is because i will shiver when i talk..
and i will keep on sweating~
that is horrible!
However, i need to see who are the audiences..
i dont scared to talk in front of the people who are younger than me..
may be it is because the people elder is more knowledgeable!
and i afraid of doing mistake!
that's all!
Thanks~
wai mun
Frankly,i am exposed to public speaking quite late.it was during my form 6.i could still remember vividly,everyone of us in class would always pray for the adsent of the MUET teacher.Fear would fill up our mind whenever teacher step into our class!!!You can imagine how much of our hatred toward public speaking...
Somehow,i really admire to those excellent public speaker.I will respect them very(xinfinity) much.
In fact,i wish myself can conquer this challenge and to be my own admirer...i think it's a must to excel it in order to increase our competency in future.
I know it's not easy to achieve that but i will do my best to attain it.
By the way,I really agree with mashi,it's no use to cry over spilt milk cause it would only make yourself hate public speaking more and more.
On the other way round,the first thing i think we should learn is love public speaking more and more....
Salam everyone...
~linda here~
Public speaking???actually i'm not hate public speaking,just quite afraid...
This because i'm very shy to stand infront of class and everyone looked at me...
Futhermore,my voice too soft and im quite nervous..my hand will cold...
Oh,i dont know how to overcome this..maybe with a lot of practice will help me..please support me...
Personally,I do not hate public speaking,but,I'm still in the process of building my self-confidence in this area.
Like Winnie said,it all depends on who ur audience r.Age does matter.To me,seriously.When u noe that u target audience r younger than u,and ur main aim is to pass info that u have it long in ur fingertips,it's just so E-A-S-Y.
However,if the audiences r ur peers or someone older than u,ah,now,u'll feel the pressure coming in.Making u harder to speak out.
But I strongly believe that PRACTISE MAKES PERFECT.If we practise more in front of the people that we tend to b nervous at,in due time,we'll be used to it.
i hate public speaking...
i'm like that song..hehehe...
not only me, everyone hate public speaking....
it more scare than horror movies...
what funny of it...
however, i'm want to do my best on it....
study smart, not study hard...
from the rock,k28....
Hassanal Haris
Kc08047
One way to overcome fear of public speaking is to be afraid and speak anyway. As stupid as this seems, it’s possibly the most reliable way to gain confidence in speaking. Be afraid, be nervous, be hesitant, but do it anyway.
You won’t be very good at it the first few times, but don’t expect to be. Simply make it a goal to do it and finish. Once you’ve done it a few times, and you realize it hasn’t killed you, you’ll be less afraid to do it the next time. And if you keep doing it, eventually you’ll start to get good at it and may even learn to enjoy it.
I think one of the reasons people fear public speaking is that they expect too much of themselves. It’s like being afraid of flying a plane when you’ve had no instruction. Of course you’re going to fail. If the pilot calls you up to the cockpit and says “land this plane,” it’s a safe bet you’ll crash if you try it.
But at least when you fail at public speaking, it isn’t normally fatal. Failure is actually one of the best ways to learn it. It’s the same way we learn to walk and talk when we’re toddlers. We stumble and stutter until we get it right. Just as you wouldn’t expect a white belt in Karate to be able to break a brick, you also wouldn’t expect a first-time public speaker to be as polished as a pro. But sadly, people demand such a level of performance of themselves, expecting that if they’re going to speak publicly, they’d better be outstanding. And since this isn’t going to happen, it generates fear. But the fear largely goes away if you set realistic expectations and head up to the lectern expecting to stink your first few times.
At the very least, Toastmasters is a great way to get out and do something social, make new local friends (which is especially nice to counterbalance an overabundance of online friends), have some laughs, and get the heck away from the computer for a while. In fact, I have a meeting to go to right now….
Hassanal Haris
actually i like public speaking
From my opinion,every student should lisen "i had public speaking" song because,from that we can realized our self and will get to know about our stages. Student should improve their skills in order to present a quality presentation. Firstly,i just laugh with my friends when i view the song. Then i bring up some question,"Why we all hate the public speaking?".After that,i got some message from the song that tell us always should aleart to improve our skills. Forexample communication skills,leadership skiils and speaking skills,because this is a skills will always help us to bring out or create our good images
Putra kc08008
Salam.I just want to add some fact on how to be a good public speakers.The most commom fear among public speakers is stages fright.Occourding to oxford dictionary stages fright is the feeling occour when performing on stages and will have efffect on our behavior for example nervous.The first thing to do for overcoming stages fright is to control your feeling and behave normaly on stages.By doing this you will fell more relax and calm so that the projection of idea wiil not be interrupted.There was a study about nervous in the west that shows people that fell nervous wiil have problem on projection of idea.The second step on how to overcome stages fright is to changes the mind set among the public speaking.Most of us will set on our mind public speaking suck because we did not enjoy doing public speaking and we always put in mind that public speaking is something that bourden.
fazdrul kc08036
public speaking?
i'm very scared when listen this word..
i feel want to kill the person that talk about this word..
but i like the song i hate public speaking....
this song very suitable for me to show that i hate public speaking so much...
when, the teachers said that every person must talk at the stage, i feel nervous, and want run away from her class....
as a conclusion, i ate public speaking so much....
asssalamualaikum and hye everyone...
Public speaking????
actualy, hornestly i didnt like public speaking before i enter UMP..
If i hear a public speaking, my heart bit like to out, my hand is cold and my kneel was shaking..that is because i didnt have confident to speak in the public..after learn how to control our when face to face with a public with my teaher madam jumani...
Now,when I want to present something, my confident level is improve even not to much..hehehe
I think that's all...
adioss.....
Assalamualaikum...
Actually public speaking can give advantage to me but I don't have skill about public speaking.so sometime i like and sometime i don't like it.After i hear song 'i hate public speaking'it is same to me.hahaha
I hope one day I can give public spaeking.Thank you for Pn Jumani because give me some tips how to be a good presenteror to give a speech.that all...
salam...
first when i heard about public speaking...i thouggt it was easy...just like we talk to our frenz...
the true is public spaeking is not easy as u think...so nervous...all the things
that i plan to talk gone...fly without wings...
i feel like an abnormal person...my hands was shaking...like having parkinson deasase...sometimes i will go to the left or right to overcome my nervous...looks like wanna dance...hehe..
but for me to overcome the nervouse..we have to practice more...even a pro public speaker have their nervous...
the different is they didn't show their nervous..like teacher said they lied to the audience..
that's all for me...
nik
kc08024
i late again.......
PUBLIC SPEAKING...
Oh my god.....
100% i hate public speaking....yeah I really hate public speaking while i was born. I feel nervous everytime I have to give the speech although I have practice it many times. I also lack of confident and I will forgot everything I have remember and read when I saw the audience. My hand will shaking. But I will try to improve myself and I hope I will become one of the best presenter one day.
PUBLIC SPEAKING!!
what can I described about it?
-nervous
-shy
-shaking
-and so on ....
but sometimes I enjoy about it IF another person go at front and present their project @ related.
but what I'm hate about public speaking is myself that speechless..
other conditions it OK on ME.
confident style, and other EXCLUDE related at speech I can control it!
that the weakness that I want improved after this! so, PLEASE HELP ME OUT ON THAT!!!
geetha said,
Oh my god,why im so late sent comment...today only i realise that i not yet complete my comment,,,
Its okie,i do it ready...
I am not hate public speaking but i have less confident to talk in public...
Other than that,i feel nervous because i dont have confident to talk in front of public..
I hope that,technical english will make me more confident.
geetha
assalamualaikum...
For me, the public speaking is one way to improve our skill in speaking in English language but i hate it because when i'm started to stand in front of a lot of people, my mind become blank and so nervous like a butterfly in my stomach. anyway i'm try my best to improve it.
that's all..
FRANLY JAMES,KC08062
heloo..
actually i like public speaking a lot..but when it comes to facing the audiences i would be shaking and my mind is blank..i still cannot overcome my stagefright fully....i think ,to overcome this problem, i should put an emphasis on my vocabulary and speech techniques...
hopefully,at the end of this course,i would be a better public speaker...
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